Play Technique

Play Technique

What is BDSM? (Guide I Use for the Vanilla by HeartHannah

What is BDSM? BDSM is an acronym that stands for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism. I’ll get into what each of those means below. Note that none of these things are inherently sexual, though they can be. Some view BD...

Changing Your Relationship With Pain by vahavta

Since joining the more public fetish community a bit over a year ago, I've frequently received messages – first, from people who’d seen me scene in public, then from people who’d seen pictures of me post-scene on mine or another’s profile –...

A.F.T.E.R.C.A.R.E by CaptainCocky

A.F.T.E.R.C.A.R.E by CaptainCocky A: Attentiveness – This includes intimacy: cuddling, caressing,hugging, kissing, massaging, and whispers. Free the bottom frombondage. Have a change of clothing packed. Control body temperature.Get warmth by: blank...

How to really listen? Good communication starts with listening – EricPride

In the lifestyle, we talk a lot about the importance of good communication skills. What do good communication skills entail? A lot of things. One of the most important of them all is being able to really listen. While listening skills are often overl...

What’s That You Say? Reading Body Language in Play by Rev

What’s That You Say? Reading Body Language in Play By RevYou’ve heard it said (and if you haven’t, it’s about time you did) that Dominants aren’t mind readers. It’s said for a reason. “Dominant-as-mind-reader” is one of those persiste...

NO is a safeword - unless you negotiate otherwise– Moon_Dancer

NO is a safeword - unless you negotiate otherwise– Moon_Dancer I hate the phrase "no is not a safeword" and have found myself the victim of non-consensual violence with this used as an excuse. The only time no is not a safeword is when participatin...

The Science Behind Spanking (why spankings are enjoyable) by SouthrnGentleman

Afraid to receive a spanking??  Afraid of the pain of a spanking? Or, are you a spankee or spanker who wants to get the most out of spankings?? Here is the scientific reasons behind spankings. The reason you may ENJOY a spanking. I will discuss the ...

The Ultimate Thrill Ride: Ten Tips for BDSM Safety

The Ultimate Thrill Ride: Ten Tips for BDSM Safety By Joey W. Hill, 11/20/2012 There is a growing interest in bondage in the bedroom, and many of my readers are giving it a try in an effort to spice up their sex lives. It’s fun and feels a little b...

Why I can do these things and you should NOT... by TheMasterTalon

I teach a lot of different topics and my play includes even more types of skills that I have studied and practiced for the past 16 years of Leather life.   I was taught by my elders that you did not practice anything on a human until you became prof...

The Anatomy of a Scene By Rev

If you haven’t heard me say this yet, here goes again: being into BDSM doesn’t mean you have to be into sadomasochism or “scening” (engaging in “scenes”). Having scenes doesn’t mean you have to be into sadomasochism either. And finally,...
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