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Bondage

Some Questions for Negotiation by arrogantslut

Dear Play Partners: I want to play with YOU, not just your kinks! I don't really care too much about what toys you like to use or what clothes you like to wear. Sorry -- that's all pretty interchangeable to me. I want to know what beat your perverted...

Vetting Potential Play Partners - My Approach by SunderSpren

A friend recently asked me for an opinion of someone I know in the scene. I thought I would post a part of it here on how I approach providing references and vetting other people in my own play. There is no right way, this is what I've found works we...

A Chautauqua: On D/s Philosophy - Stages of Submission by MsKestrel

I am no expert on submission or subspace, but I am an explorer in this land, and I've witnessed and experienced some wonderful and amazing events involving submission. My current journey involves a first person singular examination of the states of s...

Advice from a Newbie from ShyLittleBelle

This may sound weird because I haven't been in the scene long enough to consider myself experienced, but these are a few things that I have learned rather quickly. 1. Don't be afraid to ask questions. If you are at a play party or a dungeon or someth...

Using Your Safeword Is Not a Sign of Failure By lunaKM

When learning about personal safety and BDSM you likely hear the word safeword more than once. A safeword is used as a last resort when you need the play you are engaged in to end. But there’s an unintentional negative stigma surrounding using your...

Single in the Scene Part I: Boundaries By charmed blyss

Recently, I was contemplating the situation of being single in the Scene because of an email I received from someone concerning interacting with male dominants. Essentially, she responded to the sexual whims of the men she met online from the space ...

Feeling down after a play session? By moonlight

One weekend, my Dominant and I had a number of really great scenes. No matter what we were doing, we were deeply connected to each other and it was blissful. I can’t even remember what we did but I remember the high I felt I was soaring on no mat...

What To Do If Your Partner Gets Triggered - by Heather_Daisy

Hello! I'm Heather Daisy, and you might remember me from such films as “What To Do If Your Partner Is Horny” and “What To Do If Your Partner Is Into Breath Play.” Today we explore the wide and wonderful world of TRIGGERS. A trigger is an acti...

Changing Your Relationship With Pain by vahavta

Since joining the more public fetish community a bit over a year ago, I've frequently received messages – first, from people who’d seen me scene in public, then from people who’d seen pictures of me post-scene on mine or another’s profile –...

A 10-Step Beginners Guide to Exploring the Kinky Art of Bondage - by Pleasure Mechanics

A little excitement doesn't have to always be a complete mystery. A lot of couples want to explore the kinky side of sex — BDSM — but are afraid. If you're a newcomer to kink, there's good reason to hesitate: Going too far, too fast, or even a mi...
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